About five months ago, I started this blog and got an email associated with the blog. At first, I added that email to my phone and my computer at home. However, since I only got spam- like email there, I removed that email many many months ago.
However, tonight I saw an email from the daughter of one of my husband’s dear childhood friends. She informed us that her father had passed away, and asked to contact her. My husband asked me to reply as soon as possible, so I went into the next room and logged onto the computer.
However, her email was gone. Completely gone. Absolutely completely gone. Not in spam. Not in deleted. Not in trashed. Not an archive. Simply nowhere.
Since two of us saw the email, I knew I was not crazy. I knew we had actually seen it. And I remembered enough about the writer to be able to find her by her career and institution where she works.
And then I added back the email to my phone for my blog, the blog here. And there was her original email, notifying us of father’s death.
Her father had been the best man at our wedding. Her father was a very dear dear dear friend to my husband, who is a quiet and gentle soul, and appreciated his friendship very much.
There is no way I should’ve seen the original email at all. It is not surprising that it disappeared; rather, it is surprising that I saw at all since it was not on my phone, that email, nor on my computer.
Sometimes glitches with technology can work out. I’m not going to make it anymore than that.
However, we had been wondering what happened to his dear friends since he didn’t reply anymore to our texts or emails.
And now we know. Now we can mourn him, and send our love out into the universe and to his family.
Sometimes glitches can actually help us.
Thanks for reading this, and I hope all the little glitches in your life help you.